COUPLES MONEY DATE
Conversation prompts & a fair split worksheet for a calm, honest money date
Partners
Date
Grab a coffee, silence your phones, and remember: you're on the same team facing the money — not each other. 30-Minute Date
💬 CONVERSATION PROMPTS — TALK IT THROUGH
One money win we're proud of this month?
Any surprise expenses or bills coming up?
What's one thing stressing us about money?
Are we happy with how we split things?
What do we want to save toward together?
A purchase either of us wants to make soon?
How much "no questions asked" fun money each?
One thing we'll do differently next month?
🤝 Money Honesty Check-In
Is there any spending or debt I haven't shared yet?
Do I feel heard about money in this relationship?
What do I need from my partner to feel secure?
⚖ SHARED BILLS — SPLIT FAIRLY BY INCOME
Partner A monthly income
$
Partner B monthly income
$
▶ Combined income
$
A's share ____%  /  B's share ____%BillAB
Rent / Mortgage
$
$
$
Utilities
$
$
$
Groceries
$
$
$
Insurance
$
$
$
Subscriptions
$
$
$
Totals
$
$
$
🎯 INDIVIDUAL vs. JOINT GOALS
GoalMine / OursTarget $By When
🗓 Our next money date is...
Date
Where / Treat
"We talk about money the way we love — with honesty, patience, and a shared plan for the life we're building." 🌿